I (27F) broke up with my boyfriend (37M) 2 months ago. This was due to him still not being able to visit me because of legal problems.

However, it can take more time to figure out other things, like whether there’s actual in-person chemistry between you, and whether it just feels easy and right when you’re sharing the same space. I need help healing because I really don't know how. Going away to school makes it very hard for him and myself. We were nevermets, but I can honestly say that we had a solid relationship until the last few months of our relationship. Switching to Anonymous for a minute because I’m going to go into some pretty private details. The original plan was for him to move to NYC in the next couple of years. To end a long-distance relationship, try to break up with your partner in person if you can, since this will help them get closure. When you’re in a LDR you can get to know someone else quite quickly, and on quite a deep level. If you can’t manage to visit them, arrange a phone call or video chat and tell them you need to talk so they can prepare themselves. Even though it wasn't his fault, I … Like Dorell said below, a LDR could be successful if you both are willing to work at it harder than you might for a “normal” relationship. I go to school in one city three hours away from home, where he and I live. Yes, we would be happy every time I … My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 2 months ago because of long distance. Being in a long distance relationship can actually make it harder to break up, not easier! I want to share my reasoning for living 2,000 miles away from the person I love most, how it feels and most importantly, why I do it. I have to move to New York soon for graduate school, which only makes our distance longer. I just broke up a few days ago with my boyfriend of 2.5 years :/ We were/are long distance, and it looked really hard to close the gap. Plan to visit them as soon as possible and bring any of their possessions you have. Because I’ve recently felt both the unbearable pain and absolute bliss of love, I decided to write the ultimate guide detailing the ten stages of every long distance relationship. Sorry this is so long, but please advise: My boyfriend of 10 months, who I feel is the love of my life and had discussed a future with, broke up with me last night and I'm having the hardest, most miserable time accepting it. In a long distance relationship breakup, the person dumping you often will not list distance as a reason. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes they will, but the point is that if your long-distance love broke up with you, you need to address the distance. I’ve been rocking a LDR for over two years, and I understand just how much distance puts strain on things.